• It’s Not Just You

It’s Not Just You

Freeing Women to Talk about Sexual Sin and Fight It Well

There’s no way other women are struggling sexually like I am. My church wouldn’t understand. Isn’t this a guy’s issue?

For too long Christian women have assumed they are alone as they navigate sexual struggles. Thinking they are the outlier, they keep silent and try to face the battle all by themselves. But the truth is, if these thoughts sound familiar to you, you aren’t even close to the only one. Whether it takes the form of masturbation, viewing porn, same sex attraction, or sexual fantasies, it’s not just you. These temptations are common not only for men in the church, but many women, too.

So how do we fight against sexual sin as women? What do we do when there’s a
disconnect between what the Bible says and how we feel and live? Written from the trenches of ministering to young women, young adult minister Ashley Chesnut explores why sexual sin is “sin” to begin with, and how Scripture speaks into topics like masturbation, oral sex, and sex robots—even when those words aren’t found in the Bible.

In these pages, you’ll be empowered with the truth that God has already won the war against sin, and the victory he offers you is available right this moment. As you examine his Word along with Ashley, you’ll be given exactly what you need to win in your own battles against sexual sin, and also to aid other sisters in the fight.

No, it’s not just you. And yes, you can have victory. Right now.

about the author

Ashley Chesnut serves as the Associate Singles 20s/30s Minister at The Church at Brook Hills in Birmingham, Alabama. She has a Master of Divinity from Beeson Divinity School and a Certificate of Biblical Counseling from Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary. While Ashley has a passion for discipling young women, she also loves her city and has written a children’s book about it called Down in the Ham: A Child’s Guide to Downtown Birmingham. When she’s not at the church or meeting with girls, you can probably find her at the farmer’s market or trying some new local restaurant.

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  • isbn: 9781087713465
  • status: Not Yet Published
  • season: Summer 2021
  • publish date: 08/03/2021
  • pages: 240
  • carton quantity: 36
  • weight: 0.6
  • trim size: 5.5 x 8.5 x 0.6
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